The idea of virginity came at a time when girls were marketed and sold off as fertile wombs that would only produce their husband’s offspring. This is why we should be opposed to the idea of that “first time” – it’s a toxic and dangerous perspective that commodifies women.
When I was in college, I worked as a part-time escort. It all began after I met that charming older gentleman on a plane.
I’m well-read and educated; I’ve always been independent and have never shied from striking out my own path. I also identify as a submissive in my relationship with my boyfriend.
My friends who are aware of our lifestyle often ask me, why would anyone want to engage in a threesome, especially a couple who might otherwise be monogamous?