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I attended school as the only non-Muslim in my class. They didn’t have a moral class nor moral teachers; they only had Pendidikan Islam, and yeah, I did okay; I never failed it or anything. But when it came to SPM, the teachers suddenly told me that I had to take Moral, and I wasn’t ready for that!
I never studied the subject, and they still didn’t have a teacher for me. Truthfully, I wanted to take Pendidikan Islam because I already knew what that was all about. But in our academic system, apparently, I’m not allowed to take that subject’s exam unless it’s an add-on subject.So, in the end, I was forced to take Moral as a subject. I studied it all by myself, and they even sent me to some Moral courses to do Moral studies.
Child Of Different Cultures and Identities
I’m both Swiss and Malaysian. I grew up in Malaysia most of my life, but I keep most of the Swiss culture, like speaking Swiss at home with my family and definitely eating a lot of Swiss food and not really eating spicy food. But I’m very used to the Malaysian lifestyle, so I think it’s a balance of both.
My parents got divorced long ago, and I grew up mostly with my mom, who is Swiss.
I did have a good relationship with my dad, and I always visited him. I learned some from his side and some from her side. He showed me more of his Chinese family, and he spoke Chinese to me. Then I’d come home to my mom, and we’d speak Swiss. So, I’d say it was a very diverse culture.I think it’s important for both parents to teach their own culture or language to their kids so that they can be close to both sides of the family.
Inspired To Make A Film About Migration And Fitting Into A New Society
I have always loved watching movies since I was young, and I knew that I wanted to work somehow in the movie industry. What I always saw on screen were the actors, so I’ve always wanted to become an actress. That’s why I signed up for a diploma in Performing Arts but after I started studying, I realised that I liked being behind the camera; I liked crafting the stories.
So, my dream is to create a feature film, and I want it to go to Cannes (Film Festival). I have an idea for a film about living in another country; it is about migration and fitting into this new society. Basically focusing on the idea that the grass is always greener on the other side. It does somehow relate to my story of being in a different country. Like, although I’m a Malaysian, I still feel like an outsider. So, that’s kind of the theme of the feature film that I want to do.I don’t wish that I were full Swiss or full Chinese, or even that I were mixed. To me, that honestly doesn’t matter; it’s just what you make of yourself.
Current Dilemma?
I’ve been struggling recently with deciding whether I should move to Switzerland to try working there and see what life would be like.
It’s mostly a struggle because I’ve already built my life and have most of my friends here. I know how things work in Malaysia. So, it would be a big step and a big change for me to move there.
I do feel very accepted here, but I also feel like since I have the opportunity to go there, I should definitely give it a shot. I should see what it’s all about, and if I don’t like it, I could just come back here again.To me, home will forever be Malaysia. Hatiku di Malaysia.
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The Non-Muslim’s Guide To Understanding The Concept & History Of Halal In Malaysia
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