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A man suffering from schizophrenia has been reported missing since 3rd June (Monday).
The man has been identified as Narayanamoorthy a/l Subramaniam, and is more well-known by the name of “Joe” to friends and family.
Joe is 48 years old, is 177cm tall, and is of thinner-than-average build and weight (67kg).
He was last seen leaving his residence at Jalan Istana on June 3rd, 2024, around 6:30pm.
Joe’s home address is No. 65, Lorong Langat, Taman Bahagia Jaya, off Jalan Istana, 41100 Klang Selangor.
Eye-witnesses said he was wearing a white round-necked T-shirt, paired with black three-quarter pants that bore white stripes on them at the time of disappearance.
He was also described as having cropped black hair, a thin mustache, a five-o-clock shadow, and bears no visible facial markings, tattoos, scars, or eyewear.
Joe has been diagnosed with schizophrenia and was experiencing instability at the time of his departure.
People with schizophrenia suffer from delusions. This can mean that they are a threat to themselves or towards others, but usually it means they are confused, disorientated, or lost.
If you see Joe, but are unsure about how to approach a person suffering from schizophrenia, here’s a step-by-step guide on how to approach and help him:
How to approach a person suffering from schizophrenia
Step 1: Assess the situation for any immediate danger. If the person appears to be a threat to themselves or others, contact emergency services immediately.
Step 2: Approach the person slowly and from the front, so they can see you coming. Maintain a non-threatening posture, keeping your hands visible and avoiding sudden movements.
Step 3: Speak in a calm, gentle voice. Introduce yourself with your name and explain that you want to help. For example:
“Hi, my name is [Your Name]. I noticed you look like you could use some help. Can I sit with you for a moment?”
Use simple and clear language to communicate. For example:
“I want to make sure you’re okay. Is there someone I can call for you?”
Suggest that you can help them get in touch with their relatives or someone they trust. For example:
“Let’s wait here together while I call your family. They must be worried about you.”
Step 4: Be patient and give them time to process what you’re saying. Avoid arguing or contradicting them, especially if they are experiencing delusions or hallucinations. Do not touch the person unless it’s necessary for safety reasons and only if they are comfortable with it.
Step 5: Stay with the person until their relatives or professional help arrives. If the person becomes agitated or uncooperative, it might be necessary to contact emergency services or a mental health crisis team for assistance.
Joe’s family members are desperately searching for him.
Joe’s family members Venu, Mani, and Shan, were unaware of his leaving and are deeply concerned for his safety. Any information about him is sorely needed during this trying time.
If you recognise this man and have any information about his whereabouts, please contact:
Venu: 011-1060 1256
Mani: 011-1099 9542
Shan: 012-918 1237
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