Until we find that one person who brightens up our world, we’ll stay single. INFJs just won’t settle for anything less.
It’s nothing like in the movies. Racist jokes, micro-aggressions, mansplaining, bland food, condescension – these are just some of the things you might have to deal with daily when dating a white guy.
Malaysia is perhaps best known for its diversity, but it also comes with complex and multifaceted acts of racism. Not all of them are as explicit as assault or harassment, but more subtle forms of racism.
When a contract is signed, it’s black and white. It’s official. It’s not a date, not a fling, not a let’s-just-try-and-see-where-this-goes. So, I suggested for us to write our own relationship contract, and he agreed.
I had plans to tap into my high school friends’ network. But recently, I found out that they had broken ties with me. I realised it was because they thought of me as a homewrecker.
I really wished I was there for him right before he left me forever.I miss you Ayah.
We’ve all been the ‘nice guy’ at some point – it’s the go-to move when we’re first attracted to women.
Most would regard stalking as a perverted act. A harassment, even. I, on the other hand, thought what my (now) husband did to me was adorable.
It’s becoming a trend in the dating world.
A reflection on how typical styles of upbringing create problems in future relationships.