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I unfollowed every single person on social media and basically Marie Kondo-ed my thoughts. Does this thought spark joy? No? Away it goes.

As a stay-at-home mum, I’ve drawn some flak from relatives and friends who think I am wasting my overseas education and job skills and resources.

From big ballroom dinners at fancy hotels to garden luncheons with performances by Chinese acrobats, I cannot afford to compete for ‘Wedding of the Year’, nor am I interested in doing so.

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No one around me made me feel weird for wanting to learn Jawi. In my mind, I was just learning something new in school.

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